In light of the Tragedy that unfolded in Colorado this week, I will not do a fashion post. However I will ask that each of you take a moment to reflect on what's happened, take time to hug your loved ones a little tighter, and to say a prayer for those affected.
Father,
I come to you today for a community in need. I pray that you bring peace where there is chaos, understanding where there is confusion, and healing to the wounded...mentally, physically, and emotionally. I know that you are the only one who can truly provide these things, and I am thankful...because I know through your love all things are possible. In Christ's name I pray. Amen!
Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us. (Ephesians-3:20)
As always, thank you for taking the time to read my blog! Now go forth, and keep it classy!
Friday, July 20, 2012
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
For my younger readers...
or perhaps readers with teens in your family...as someone who has always been a big girl, I understand, all too well, how hard it can be to find trendy clothing that is age appropriate. To this I say, DO NOT BE DISCOURAGED! With a bit of patience and knowledge, it is possible to find clothing that will work for you, and still be trendy. In this edition of the Big Girl Blog, I will provide tips and tricks for great looks for younger plus size women. As always, questions and feedback are welcomed!
1. As with my more mature readers, you must start with a foundation garment. Make sure your bra is the right size. And if you need help smoothing out your mid section, do not be afraid of the all in one, or shaping camisole. For someone who is still in school, the camisole may be a better choice...I can see where it could be a bit uncomfortable changing for gym, while wearing an all in one...lol. Check out my blog on foundation garments for more info...
2. Fit is VERY important. As mentioned in a previous blog, if your pants give you a muffin top, chances are you'll need to go up a size. Also, as hard as it might be to accept...as a plus size girl, you have to remember that styles that look good on your thinner friends may not always work for you. As your shopping for school clothes, or that perfect look for a night out with your friends, keep those thoughts in mind.
3. There are stores that cater to you, the younger plus size woman. If you haven't already, familiarize yourself with Torrid, and forever 21. And you may also find trendy/age appropriate items at Ashley Stewart, Lane Bryant, the Avenue, and Old Navy....you just may have to look a little harder. Also, there are brands sold at Macys that cater to a younger plus sized clientele, i.e House of Derion and Babyphat. Don't be afraid to check them out also....but just a warning, these brands may be a bit more expensive.
4. See below for looks that could work for you. The idea is to use these looks as a guide on how to put together outfits that are cute and comfortable. And note, all of these items can be mixed and matched to create several looks out of a few pieces...
this entire look can be found at Torrid.com
Any of these outfits can be accessorised very easily with simple jewelry, and a great bag. And, they prove that plus size women of any age can still be stylish and trendy.
As always, thank you taking the time to read my blog. Now go forth, and keep it classy!
1. As with my more mature readers, you must start with a foundation garment. Make sure your bra is the right size. And if you need help smoothing out your mid section, do not be afraid of the all in one, or shaping camisole. For someone who is still in school, the camisole may be a better choice...I can see where it could be a bit uncomfortable changing for gym, while wearing an all in one...lol. Check out my blog on foundation garments for more info...
2. Fit is VERY important. As mentioned in a previous blog, if your pants give you a muffin top, chances are you'll need to go up a size. Also, as hard as it might be to accept...as a plus size girl, you have to remember that styles that look good on your thinner friends may not always work for you. As your shopping for school clothes, or that perfect look for a night out with your friends, keep those thoughts in mind.
3. There are stores that cater to you, the younger plus size woman. If you haven't already, familiarize yourself with Torrid, and forever 21. And you may also find trendy/age appropriate items at Ashley Stewart, Lane Bryant, the Avenue, and Old Navy....you just may have to look a little harder. Also, there are brands sold at Macys that cater to a younger plus sized clientele, i.e House of Derion and Babyphat. Don't be afraid to check them out also....but just a warning, these brands may be a bit more expensive.
4. See below for looks that could work for you. The idea is to use these looks as a guide on how to put together outfits that are cute and comfortable. And note, all of these items can be mixed and matched to create several looks out of a few pieces...
this entire look can be found at Torrid.com
This entire look can be found at oldnavy.com
the sweater and skirt can be found at oldnavy.com, the boots at dsw.com
Any of these outfits can be accessorised very easily with simple jewelry, and a great bag. And, they prove that plus size women of any age can still be stylish and trendy.
As always, thank you taking the time to read my blog. Now go forth, and keep it classy!
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Let's face it...
There are days when we don't want to be bothered with having to put together the "perfect outfit", and spending the day in sweats seems way more appealing. Particularly on those cold and rainy days, or days when you simply don't have much to do....but you may have to run a errand or two. To that, I say go for it! I certainly have my go to "I don't feel like being bothered" get up...lol. The thing to remember is that comfort does not equal sloppy. There are ways to do a sweat suit and still look put together. In this edition of the Big Girl Blog, I will give tips on buying the perfect lazy day ensemble that can be comfortable, yet stylish. And please remember, I welcome questions, feedback, and suggestions!
1. What we all should stay away from are sweat pants with elastic at the ankles. Not only are they style-less, they are figure insulting (in other words, not figure flattering). Basically, would you want to walk around looking like this? (thank you people of walmart for the pic!)
2. Sweats with logos...please don't! No really, please DON'T! Particularly logos across the butt...unless your 12, there's simply no need for it. And truth be told, I don't like it on 12 year olds either! As always, there are exceptions to the rules: If the logo is small, and on the top/jacket, this is ok. Also, be mindful of your foot wear. Stay away from shape ups, and other "clunky" sneakers...unless you're using them to exercise, there's simply no need to wear them in public. Try to go for stylish/feminine sneakers...see below for the look I've put together (both outfits can be purchased from Oldnavy.com, and the sneakers at Sketchers.com):
also, to add more variety, buy pieces that can be mixed and matched. For example, the bottoms can be worn with this:
and the top can be worn with these:
and the additional items can also be worn together as one look with the same sneakers shown above. Add a basic white tee underneath, simple hoop earrings, a great bag, and you're good to go!
As always, thank you for taking the time to read my blog! Now go forth, and keep it classy!
1. What we all should stay away from are sweat pants with elastic at the ankles. Not only are they style-less, they are figure insulting (in other words, not figure flattering). Basically, would you want to walk around looking like this? (thank you people of walmart for the pic!)
2. Sweats with logos...please don't! No really, please DON'T! Particularly logos across the butt...unless your 12, there's simply no need for it. And truth be told, I don't like it on 12 year olds either! As always, there are exceptions to the rules: If the logo is small, and on the top/jacket, this is ok. Also, be mindful of your foot wear. Stay away from shape ups, and other "clunky" sneakers...unless you're using them to exercise, there's simply no need to wear them in public. Try to go for stylish/feminine sneakers...see below for the look I've put together (both outfits can be purchased from Oldnavy.com, and the sneakers at Sketchers.com):
As always, thank you for taking the time to read my blog! Now go forth, and keep it classy!
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Clothing for the work place...is your attire appropriate?
Having a professional wardrobe can be tricky for a plus woman, right? WRONG! All stores that cater to plus size women offer pieces that are suitable, yet stylish for the work place. In this addition of the Big Girl Blog, I will offer tips and tricks on how to add affordable yet stylish pieces to your professional wardrobe. Or, if you have a few basic pieces in your closet already, you may be able to use this post to maximise what you already have! As always, feedback and questions are welcome!
The key to having a great professional wardrobe is to have several pieces that can be mixed and matched....a few basic bottoms with stylish tops, a few accessories, and shoes....you can literally turn one item into several different looks.
(the look below can be found at Lane Bryant and Ashley Stewart)
For example....take these basic black pants:
Pair with this top:
add a simple pair of black pumps, wedges, or stylish flats, with simple accessories, and you have the perfect work outfit.
Now, take those same pants, and pair with something like this, which can be found at Lane Bryant...
also pair with simple black shoes, and simple accessories, and you have another great look for the office.
Does your office do casual Friday? If so, the main thing to remember is that this does not give you license to go to work in your PJ's, sweats, or anything of the like. Also, stay away from the skinny jean, leggings, and short anything...lol. Because you're in a professional environment, you should dress as such..even on casual Friday. With that said, something like this would be perfect: (the shirt and trouser jeans can be found at old navy, the shoes at target)
or, for the girl who prefers a bit of height...this would be a great alternative...
again, pair with simple accessories, and your good to go!
In short, the moral of the story is...working in an office, or professional environment does not give you licence to be frumpy or sloppy. With these helpful hints, there is no longer any excuse!
As always, thank you for taking the time to read my blog. Now, go forth and keep it classy!
The key to having a great professional wardrobe is to have several pieces that can be mixed and matched....a few basic bottoms with stylish tops, a few accessories, and shoes....you can literally turn one item into several different looks.
(the look below can be found at Lane Bryant and Ashley Stewart)
For example....take these basic black pants:
Now, take those same pants, and pair with something like this, which can be found at Lane Bryant...
also pair with simple black shoes, and simple accessories, and you have another great look for the office.
Does your office do casual Friday? If so, the main thing to remember is that this does not give you license to go to work in your PJ's, sweats, or anything of the like. Also, stay away from the skinny jean, leggings, and short anything...lol. Because you're in a professional environment, you should dress as such..even on casual Friday. With that said, something like this would be perfect: (the shirt and trouser jeans can be found at old navy, the shoes at target)
or, for the girl who prefers a bit of height...this would be a great alternative...
again, pair with simple accessories, and your good to go!
In short, the moral of the story is...working in an office, or professional environment does not give you licence to be frumpy or sloppy. With these helpful hints, there is no longer any excuse!
As always, thank you for taking the time to read my blog. Now, go forth and keep it classy!
Thursday, June 14, 2012
My Review of Swimdress with White Side Bow
Originally submitted at OneStopPlus
Chic - pure and simple. Our plus size black swimdress is accented with a pretty bow at the top left. Plus size swimwear. Machine wash. Imported.
- Bandeau-style black swimdress with contrast white band and bow at the top of the bodice
- Removable/adjustable white strap, soft mo...
sexy and comfortable!
By Brenda from Fayetteville, NC on 6/14/2012
Waist: Feels true to size
Cup Fit: Feels true to size
Pros: Attractive Design, Slimming, Good Fit, High Quality, Comfortable, Flattering
Best Uses: Swimming, Tanning, Beach, Boating
Describe Yourself: Classic, Stylish
Was this a gift?: No
I purchases this for the cruise I just took. And while I bought 2 other suites with me, I lived in this one. I love that the straps are removable, and I wore it strapless every time. The lining has great support, and smooths out all of my bumps and bulges.It also gave me great breast support, even with out the straps (but at a C cup, I'm a bit small as plus sized girls go)...and Bonus! No tan lines! I got in blue, and the color is exactly as pictured. All in all, I highly recommend this suite.
(legalese)
Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Hair...what does yours say about you?
Hair styling is very much a personal choice...whether you choose to keep it long, or short...chemically processed, or natural...it makes a statement about you, and your personal style. In this particular blog, I will give no specific do's or don'ts...but I will highlight some things that I have seen that are just wrong! With that said, this will probably be a fairly short post...but as always, questions and comments are more than welcome!
Multi colored hair...as in rainbow bright...why? No, seriously, why? Unless it is Halloween, there is no need for any person to walk around with the rainbow in their hair. It looks unprofessional for any job, and it sends the message that you don't really care about your appearance...which if you spent the time and money to do it, we know that couldn't be further from the truth! I'm all for the unconventional colored rinses (on DARK hair), and/or highlights...I have my own hair rinsed with red or plum(depending on how I feel when I get to the salon), but I have dark hair. So unless I'm in the sun, or really good light, you can't really tell. So basically, my question is, why would anyone want to walk around looking like this?
Hair Weaves...I have zero problems with weaves. However, I do have a problem with poorly done/kept weaves. If you have kinky hair, but your weave is silky straight...and you didn't think to relax your hair before getting said weave, this is a problem. If you can see your tracks, because your natural hair was not blended properly, this is a problem. And lastly, if you can not afford to maintain your weave (i,e getting the tracks tightened, having it properly washed/styled, etc), then PLEASE don't get one to begin with! The last thing you want is to be walking around looking like this:
The "natural look"...this will mainly apply to my African American readers...if you are going to do it, do it right! Make sure your hair is healthy, and you're using the right products for your hair. For tips and tricks, check out my girl Mznaturallife at https://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/MzNaturalLife.
As always, thank you for taking the time to read the Big Girl Blog! Now go forth, and keep it classy!
Multi colored hair...as in rainbow bright...why? No, seriously, why? Unless it is Halloween, there is no need for any person to walk around with the rainbow in their hair. It looks unprofessional for any job, and it sends the message that you don't really care about your appearance...which if you spent the time and money to do it, we know that couldn't be further from the truth! I'm all for the unconventional colored rinses (on DARK hair), and/or highlights...I have my own hair rinsed with red or plum(depending on how I feel when I get to the salon), but I have dark hair. So unless I'm in the sun, or really good light, you can't really tell. So basically, my question is, why would anyone want to walk around looking like this?
Hair Weaves...I have zero problems with weaves. However, I do have a problem with poorly done/kept weaves. If you have kinky hair, but your weave is silky straight...and you didn't think to relax your hair before getting said weave, this is a problem. If you can see your tracks, because your natural hair was not blended properly, this is a problem. And lastly, if you can not afford to maintain your weave (i,e getting the tracks tightened, having it properly washed/styled, etc), then PLEASE don't get one to begin with! The last thing you want is to be walking around looking like this:
The "natural look"...this will mainly apply to my African American readers...if you are going to do it, do it right! Make sure your hair is healthy, and you're using the right products for your hair. For tips and tricks, check out my girl Mznaturallife at https://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/MzNaturalLife.
As always, thank you for taking the time to read the Big Girl Blog! Now go forth, and keep it classy!
Monday, June 4, 2012
So, I'm back from vacation...
and I have to say, I am NOT happy about it! lol... I had an amazing week, sunning and funning in the Caribbean. There was lots of great food, and cocktails, and I couldn't have asked for better company. We took a cruise (Royal Caribbean's Oasis of the Seas) to Jamaica, Cozumel, and Labadee. There were beautiful sunny days, amazing beaches, and gorgeous night skies...with the moon and stars in all their glory! But now that I'm back to life and reality, it's time to blog about what I wore on vacation! Now, I will admit that I was terrible about having myself photographed everyday, but I did manage to get some decent pics. I will also admit that there were some hits and misses...I know what I think they are, and I'm interested to see what you all think. As always, feed back and questions are welcomed!
This is my swim suit cover, which I purchased from oldnavy.com. I love it! Very Comfy...
This was my "smart casual" ensemble. The outfit came from onestopplus.com, the shoes from Oldnavy.com.
I could not wait to wear this dress! I purchased this from Catos....and if your wondering what the big deal was with this look, scroll down a bit further, and check out the back!
Ok, so it was pretty cloudy, and foggy when this picture was taken...but I loved this look too. Over all, it was super comfy, yet stylish....the whole look, from head to toe, can be found at oldnavy.com
This was my absolute favorite outfit of the entire vacation. You can't really tell in the pictures, but the bottoms are "cargo" crops, in a dark olive green. I paired this look with the red ankle wrap sandals, which I featured in my summer events blog. I felt sassy and sexy in this look, and received several compliments....the best one, was that I "looked like a ray of sunshine"...lol. The entire look, from head to toe, can also be found at oldnavy.com
As always, thank you for taking the time to check out my blog. Now, go forth, and keep it classy!
This was my "formal" look. The dress came from avenue.com, the shoes and Jewelry from payless.com, and the clutch from lanebryant.com.
This is my swim suit cover, which I purchased from oldnavy.com. I love it! Very Comfy...
This was my "smart casual" ensemble. The outfit came from onestopplus.com, the shoes from Oldnavy.com.
I could not wait to wear this dress! I purchased this from Catos....and if your wondering what the big deal was with this look, scroll down a bit further, and check out the back!
Ok, so it was pretty cloudy, and foggy when this picture was taken...but I loved this look too. Over all, it was super comfy, yet stylish....the whole look, from head to toe, can be found at oldnavy.com
As always, thank you for taking the time to check out my blog. Now, go forth, and keep it classy!
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